• Aniki@feddit.org
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    11 hours ago

    in my personal experience, attraction has little to do with gender and much more to do with personality. if i just don’t vibe with the other person, it doesn’t matter whether they’re male/female, i can’t get with them. It has literally nothing to do with gender. everything with mindset. ok i admit it, the body does play a role, but not 100%.

    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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      6 hours ago

      Yeah a lot of bi people feel that way. I lose all horniness when I smell “man smell”. And I can say it’s absolutely about that because the incident was with someone who had just stopped testosterone and after a few weeks we were sleeping together a few times a week for months.

      Personality is nice for me, but it’s body shape and feel and smell that do it for me, and it all points to women for me.