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Cake day: August 17th, 2023

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  • Would the father’s age be a stupid reason to get an abortion?

    Yes, if that’s the only reason.

    Look there’s many valid reasons to get an abortion including “I just don’t feel like having a child right now”. But this baby’s potential future relationship with their father, that you don’t even know how it will go … yep that’s stupid. People have babies as single parents all the time. In this case the father is still kinda around at least.













  • What are you interested in?

    Sharing your current hyperfocus can work well, but you have to introduce it gradually. Don’t infodump. Introduce the subject a few times superficially until you become known as “the guy who’s into X”. Then as some point you will be asked to explain. That’s your moment!

    If you’re more into discussing philosophy and meaning of life, you need to wait for a correct setting. You mentioned it yourself. It usually includes consuming some kind of substances, but even if you don’t it’s that kind of vibe. Put yourself into “afterpaty” situations. When you do some activity (not necessarily a party) and then stay to hang out with the same people.