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toomanypancakes@piefed.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days ago

Say your partner is gone for around a week, and you're home alone. What are you going to do that you wouldn't normally with someone around?

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Say your partner is gone for around a week, and you're home alone. What are you going to do that you wouldn't normally with someone around?

toomanypancakes@piefed.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 days ago
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  • _cryptagion [he/him]@anarchist.nexus
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    sleep till 10am every day.

  • Boozilla@lemmy.world
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    Eat bad-for-me food, hang out more with my “nerd friends”, crank the music in the car, watch a movie that I like but they wouldn’t.

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    Definitely binge gaming.

  • RebekahWSD@lemmy.world
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    Assuming twin went with partner to make the house truly empty, I’d be calling both of them each day, and otherwise dancing with the cat. She’s nervous so less people maybe she’d let me affectionate her more.

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    If you had asked few months ago I would’ve said that I’d watch outrageous amounts of porn and consume substances but now I’d just do more of what I would normally be doing anyway. Well, maybe I’d watch a movie or two. Perhaps go to sauna and have few beers.

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    Eat at arbitrary times when I’m hungry, and eat lots of spicy food. Smoke weed and play computer games. Feel a bit lonely.

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      +1

    • ChapulinColorado@lemmy.world
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      That sounds wonderful, even the lonely part. I feel we don’t appreciate the valance that some time alone can bring since we are social (ish) animals.

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        It’s hugely valuable. I love my partner deeply, but I often fall into a trap of imagining that life was simpler an dmore fun when I didn’t have to care about another person’s needs and could just be the goblin inside. But when I actually get the chance, the novelty wears off pretty quick and I’m so happy when they’re back.

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    Lots of porn I assume

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    Based on experience: play video games for too long instead of eating, watch movies they don’t normally enjoy, and forget to go to sleep at a reasonable time.

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      This

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      Fucked up sleep pattern for the win.

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      A dog or a cat may help with the last one. They will let you stay up too late, but they won’t let you sleep in.

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        Oh dear lord. My 5 year old shiba has been deciding by that 4am is suddenly an appropriate time to ask to go to the bathroom when I even limit water after a certain point at night. This just started recently. She used to go until 5:30 or so and still sometimes does. It seems random, so I don’t think it’s a UTI or anything.

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          My girls are both 8, but they don’t have a specific time. They just go by the sun coming up, lol.

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        My dog is a 13 years old couch potato. He gets angry when I try to get him outside while its still dark :D

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    Shit with the door open

    Nothing else changes

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    Listen to music I was into in my teens & twenties and sing out loud. Cook grub. Clean the flat. Read books on couch and go to sleep early. Probably start a project that will be left unfinished on the table. Enjoy the peace & quiet. Then walk around talking to myself and get annoyed for being lonely and bored.

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    Find out how many times I can hammer one off before it starts to hurt.

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEQDllvuy1I

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    Catch up on video games, reading, and maybe some shows they don’t care for.

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    Cook food that he doesn’t like

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      I can eat the stuff that literally kills him. At home. Without worry!

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    Watch a horror movie

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