it’s actually kind of the opposite. the notion that we’re attracted to abusers is something people say to blame people who get abused. it even has a shitty prevalence in psychology.
If you’re struggling with this, you should watch this video by Theramintrees where he debunks it
It sounds a little victim-blame-y but the “needs to be worked on” makes it ok
it’s actually kind of the opposite. the notion that we’re attracted to abusers is something people say to blame people who get abused. it even has a shitty prevalence in psychology.
If you’re struggling with this, you should watch this video by Theramintrees where he debunks it