• Victor@lemmy.world
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          3 days ago

          I’m glad you are open about it. That’s a good thing. Are you open about it to anyone close to you in your life? Or not close to you? A therapist even?

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            I’ve been out of work since April. Trump stop funding the government department that employed me. Instead he sends troops to cities. As an American I can’t afford a therapist. Even if I had insurance I’ve had nothing but bad experience with therepy. I don’t have family that will help me. I’m going hungry most days to stretch my budget.

            In a couple months I turn 40.

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              I’m sorry this is happening to you. Maybe you could live with someone as a room mate until things turn around.

              How’s job hunting? Are you active in that?

              I hope your birthday will be a good day, buddy. Cheers!

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            3 days ago

            Pets annoy the hell out me. I hate animals to a point where I became a vegetarian years ago. I’m not trolling, I’m 100% serious.

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              16 hours ago

              I don’t hate animals, but pets are expensive. Just spent $225 yesterday on an ear infection. My cat has an allergy we cant figure out. We can’t afford it. Recommending a pet to even a person who likes animals, but stuggles financially isn’t good advice.

              This is my first pet, and I probably won’t get another just because cost is high for vet care and food/litter. We have two cats and we spend probably $200 a month or more just for necessities before vet visits. Flea/tick meds are monthly and $100 just for the two of em. So make that $300 a month on necessities, aye…

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          Any support circles in the community that can help government or otherwise? Some really nice people in those organizations that are ready to lend a hand

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          16 hours ago

          If you we’re in my neighborhood I would feed youm that goes for anyone.

          There’s that ‘lasagna for love’ organization, I’ve never used it, but I’ve heard about it. Give it a go?

          I hate using Amazon, and I am absolutely on snap, but maybe I could send you some noodles or something? You just set up a list and I can purchase it for you.

          A number of years ago, reddit had that page, idk the name I forgot, but so many people sent us food when we were struggling. I absolutely can pay it forward today. Lmk

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            16 hours ago

            I really do appreciate that from the bottom of my heart. That being said I’m trying to keep a level of animioty between myself and the internet.

            I’m willing to give up that animioty for full time employment if you’re in a position to help with that.

            I need a job over a hand out. Once again I very much appreciate the offer.