Put yourself in their shoes, some guy dates one of their daughters for 6 years and then has a breakup and goes for the younger child. Would you be fine if someone did this with your children? I would wonder about the motives of that guy and also that is also a real betrayal from you towards your sister. It’s actually a pretty fucked up situation that any parent would justifiably take issue with, I would never ever trust the guy, how long before he hurts the next daughter? Was he attracted to her when she was a teenager and waiting for the right time? Why should my other daughter have to see her ex every time with her sister, why would her sister think this is ok? And as someone older, the first year is always all roses and means jack shit. After several years you see who people really are and you become comfortable to be your true self, you don’t know the guy but your sister after 6 years will definitely know him. I would have a long talk with her, see what you’re really getting into long term. And remember your parents have experienced life, you see through a lot of bullshit with age, you’re practical still a kid at 25. I know I was a total moron at that age.
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Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Florida schools will test armed drones this fall to thwart shootersEnglish5·11 days agoI’ve been predicting that terrorist (aka conservatives in the US) will start using them from long range soon. I’m surprised that this didn’t start happening sooner but I guess people of that disposition aren’t very clever so it’s taken a whole lot longer to catch on.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Trump says TikTok should be tweaked to become “100% MAGA”English17·15 days agoMAGA youth recruitment and education platform
Heladoius (as it was in Spain) or Ice-creamius
There is a hollow grass based solution used in asia which requires zero processing beyond cutting, drying and packaging. But I’ll keep the paper straws if the billionaires have to travel in paper planes and boats.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is it racist to oppose illegal immigrants?11·16 days agoI’d argue no, if you have valid reasons and lets not kid ourselves even though there is enough wealth in the world to have everyone live comfortably, thats not the game the wealthy and their puppet politicians play. They want us cheap and desperate and immigrants are just another tool to achieve this objective.
Until it’s deemed illegal to block ads and you lose points on your social credit rating, more bodies for the corporate prison system.
Siegehammer85@lemmy.worldtoPolitical Memes@lemmy.world•Make sure to check your kid's Halloween candy for Tylenol this year5·18 days agoDon’t insult people with extra chromosomes, they are human… That’s clearly a pig with extra chromosomes.
Can we interest you in watching paint dry? It’s as action packed as the EU defending itself.