M137 understood what I meant.

I believe that people are born with the same primitive instincts as everyone else, (survive and reproduce) but they gradually begin to develop their own feelings and sense of being. Some natural, some by trauma, etc, overcoming the expectations of your parents being the biggest hurdle.

I’m just simply saying that people aren’t born knowing they’re a part of that community until they’ve come to a realization or a spark.

Just my opinion. Just how I observed a family member and his experiences. Sadly, no one accepted him and he’s gone now. But I read his journals about how he felt, came to being, etc afterwards. Just wanted to understand.

Not suddenly, but gradually

Ok, and?